Where Does The Other Woman Lurk?

Not that I should care about the other woman, but I still wonder where she's at. I know that she hasn't moved into my old house, but I wonder if she goes over there to visit, and does she go through some of the things I left there? Does she laugh in silence about my moving out, and now he's free? I have to wonder, although I know it's not important anymore. Would I even recognize her if I ran into her at the grocery store? I honestly don't think so because even though I saw her a time or two, I don't remember her. The only thing I remembered when I saw her last was "why would he want her over me"? I never got that answer and I know I never will. Moving on after infidelity sure is hard.....but I know I will get there someday.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Debbie,

I just discovered your blog through a link on a comment that you left on my site.

I've been reading through some of your posts and I think you're a wonderful writer. It's easy to see that you're a strong, intelligent, and beautiful woman going through a very difficult time.

It's admirable that you blog so openly about the hurt caused by infidelity. You're providing a true service both to yourself and to anyone who has ever been cheated on.

Wishing you true happiness,

Jazmin

Anonymous said...

Though it may not feel like it, you're already on your way there.

She probably isn't laughing but worrying if he will step out on her someday. Habitual cheaters will always be one.