Well, it's been a very long many years now that I am no longer with my ex. I do not see him anywhere anymore, I do not have any contact with him unless it's about our daughter, and I don't even know what he looks like any longer. Not that I want to, but it's kind of strange not having to deal with him about our daughter's dr. visits, school or dentist, etc. Our daughter is now a young lovely woman who has gotten married and has a child of her own. For as long as I can remember, my ex has had his answering machine on his cell phone with my voice on it, and refused to take it off after we split up. He didn't want anyone to know what happened with us or why I was no longer with him. He was ashamed of his infidelities and as well he should have been. I recently had to try and call him so that I could give him some information and was shocked to hear, that FINALLY, after all these years, he has replaced my voice recording with someone else's. Some man's voice, but not his own. I am so glad that he is finally moving onto his future. He is still, by the way, with the OTHER WOMAN. I hope that he's happy, because I am. It seems like such a lifetime ago. Isn't that how things go?