And Life Goes On....

Well, it's been a little while since he's called me, which means that he doesn't need my help for anything, which is good. I would have thought that by now, and his being with the other woman and now living with her once again, that SHE would be the one to take care of his "woes". I hope that one day he will no longer think that I am supposed to keep on doing things for him. The last time I heard from him was because he wants me to take over the house that he fought me for. I have NO plans on bailing him out of the house, because he owes over $3000 to the man he's buying it from and there is no way that I can help him with that. I have my own life going on now, and it's good......maybe not perfect, but it's getting there. Life MUST go on for me and I need to keep him out of my life. I have found out a long time ago that all he does is hurt me and I don't want to be reeled back in. If you would have asked me a year ago if life goes on without him, I would have cried until there were no tears left, but now, I am over him and moving on with life. If you are out there, and you are going through the pain of infidelity, please know that life WILL go on , and it DOES get better. Never give up.

3 comments:

Balancing Barb said...

This is a great honest blog. I feel your pain and understand what you are going thru. Stay strong!

Dave said...

I also feel your pain. It does subside. Going through a divorce now and she was/is the same way even though she cheated on me.

cheating spouse said...

You are very strong and I am glad to read your story. Stay strong and don't let him try to reel you back in to get hurt anymore. Only you know whats best for you. It's hard to get over but once you do, life goes on.