Have You Lost "You"?

Sometimes I feel as though I lost myself somewhere along the way. It's true that when we marry someone or get into a relationship that we mold ourselves to our partner and that makes getting along with them a little easier. I seemed to have lost my inner happiness during the time we were married, and that's not a good thing. Did his cheating on me get me down so bad to the point that I couldn't find my inner peace and happiness? I can honestly say that going through infidelity really made me hit rock bottom with this man. I think that I became his "wife", the kids "mother" and one day I just didn't have time for "me". How do I get back to being the old me? The old me that used to have such joy in life, the one who loved playing around and being silly....well, I think that in time, my joy will return, but it all takes time. One thing I feel is that I can breathe easier not having to deal with a cheating spouse, and another thing is that I can do more things to please me instead of him....maybe that's the start of finding myself again.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Many people struggle with the knowing part, constantly feeling something is wrong, but having no proof.
We provide proof of the infidelity:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iWyT0w7R2P4

The Author said...

I completely agree with the "lost me" theme. It's hard. Hang in there. I'm suffering through it as well. (unrulydays.blogspot.com)