Broken Hearts Are Meant To Be Put Back Together

I truly and honestly believe that broken hearts are meant to be put back together....but that doesn't mean that it has to be put back together by my ex. I am done, done, done. There is no turning back to be with him. I guess that I was put through the test the other day when I saw him. I didn't see him with his other woman, but nonetheless, I came face to face with him. He certainly has grown "old and gray" really fast. I was able to look at him without letting those big brown eyes get to me. I am so proud of myself. I think for me, once he finally admitted that he was going to move back in with his other woman and finally admit that she was not a figment of my imagination, that put everything into perspective for me. No more lies and no more wondering for me. It's done, she's got him now and I am so glad that I am at a closure with this. I had a broken heart over him for such a long time and I know that now that my life has come to an end with him, it's time to heal. Broken hearts ARE meant to heal.

Moving On Past Infidelity

Oh, this is one of the hardest things in life, well, maybe it's just me, but after being with someone, sharing your life with them, and then to have it all come crashing down on you is life altering. Here is my checklist for reasons to move on past infidelity.

1. The past is in the past. You cannot change it no matter how hard you try.
2. Remembering CAN be a good thing, but dwelling on it can be disastrous to your health.
3. Forgiving can help your body let go of some of the heartaches that infidelity brings.
4. It's hard to move on and go forward with your life, if you are still looking back.
5. Starting a fresh new start can really help you see that there IS life after infidelity.
6. If you have children, they need us to be healthy and strong. Taking care of ourselves helps us to take care of them.