Sometimes in the middle of dealing with infidelity, we MUST stop and take a little bit of time out for ourselves. There became a time when I was just so tired of dealing with the pain that I didn't think I would ever come out of it all....but I did.
How does one come out from such hurt and heartache? It's hard, and it certainly takes time for our heart to mend. Having someone to talk with about what your'e going through also helps tremendously. Doing something for yourself, starting up a new hobby helps too, oh, and chocolate !!! Chocolate can most certainly help in your moment of grief, if just for a few moments. I don't know what it is about that sweet, savory taste, but I have had my moments.
Time, time time ! That is what it takes to get you through this pain. But most of all, remember that you don't have to make a decision overnight. Take the time to think things out.