Cheating, Cheating, Cheating.....

What's up with all this stuff in the news and it's always about someone cheating on their spouse or loved one.  Why is that?  What seems to be going on with people who just can't seem to find happiness with their spouse?
 Is there anything that can be done about it? And aren't you tired of hearing about it? As you can see, it's not just us common folks, but celebrities as well....and it doesn't seem to me that beauty plays any part of it.  A famous person can have an adorable looking spouse and will still cheat. That just goes to show you that it's not about pretty or's about something that's missing inside of the person that's doing the cheating. To this day, I have really never found out why my ex cheated. His other woman wasn't prettier, skinnier or smarter than me, but he felt that it was something in her that he needed that I couldn't provide, I suppose. To think about it, cheating has been around since way back when.... I guess it will never end. So how do you go about finding someone who WON'T cheat?  Good question, right?


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Infidelity Rage said...

I don't understand why people just can't commit to the person he/she is with either. It's such a shame that people don't have the decency to stay faithful...

Dr. Ashok Koparday said...

There are some who wouldn't cheat. They are the one's who wouldn't steal, who wouldn't lie.

I fear that those who cheat (wife) find it difficult to live with such bland people. The thrill of sexciting romance in extra marital relationship is strong opium, unstoppable, addictive.

There is lack of feeling, "Oh! My God. What did I do?"

There is sadness due to the plight of having fallen in bad times and not about having created knowingly the result.

The result is not what happens after she has confessed due to remorse, but after she has been caught. The result is because the beau has withdrawn and is unwilling to continue relationship.

Why did this happen to me?
Same reply as why I got malignancy.
One feature is you have been in love and despite the spouse's infidelity your love hasn't receded; it is now struggling to stay with pain of betrayal.

Getting new person to love is the prescription to regain your spirit and live love filled life.
Changing your residence is another aspect to breath healthy life.

Will I meet some one worthy (also trustworthy)?
Yes, you will. Good loving, lovable people exist. Get them in your life and move on.
It is only then that you will thank providence for what happened.

Dr. (Mr.) Ashok Koparday