tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6753794324035377410.post5473089179172930958..comments2023-10-10T09:43:37.865-05:00Comments on Infidelity Stinks: Is It Lust, or Love?Magaritashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17415071156379644936noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6753794324035377410.post-63856760291026102262007-12-27T13:20:00.000-06:002007-12-27T13:20:00.000-06:00I found myself questioning my husband a lot in the...I found myself questioning my husband a lot in the wake of his admission that he had been cheating. I read someplace that getting those questions answered can be freeing -- a way of working through post-traumatic stress. But I know other women who regret having knowledge of the details.<BR/><BR/>In our case, the answer to the general question (love or lust) was someplace else -- it wasn't lust or love but mental illness, compulsive behavior. I suppose it the answer is different for everyone. And the cheater may not be able to answer either -- as there may be self-deception involved. There was with my husband.Mary P Jones (MPJ)https://www.blogger.com/profile/10251787926841410344noreply@blogger.com